【作者简介】韩舸友，笔名寒山（Han Shan），美国华侨，海外著名诗人。现任《美洲文化之声》国际传媒总编、世界华文诗歌学会会长、唐诗之路国际诗歌学会名誉主席。
作者自幼喜爱诗歌，1980年起开始发表诗歌，其作品跨越时代与文化语境，展现了丰富多彩的人生。部分作品已被译成英、蒙，马其顿等多种语言，广泛发表于《世界诗歌年鉴》，《阿图尼斯诗歌年鉴》数十种中英文诗刊与文集，被联合国教科文组织图书馆、美国国会图书馆和一些大学图书馆收藏。出版有《情殇》 诗文集及法学著作。
作者追求诗的词语、内涵与意境之美，朴实无华的文字中蕴藏着深沉情感，被称作“海外华文诗学的新意象”。多年来， 作者在北美大地上倾情创作了大量描写乡愁与爱情的诗篇。这些用生命凝铸的诗句，真挚动人，令读者潸然泪下。
Han Geyou (pen name: Han Shan moon, and Lonely Sailor) is a distinguished overseas Chinese poet and literary figure currently residing in the United States. He serves as Editor-in-Chief of Voice of American Culture International Media, President of the World Chinese Poetry Association, Co-Chair of the Silk Road International Poets’ Union, and Honorary President of the Tang Poetry Road International Poetry Society.
Since the 1980s, Han Geyou has engaged in sustained literary creation, publishing poetry that reflects a life trajectory marked by complexity, diversity, and intercultural experience. His poetic works traverse multiple historical periods and cultural landscapes, often exploring themes of love, nostalgia, human destiny, and existential reflection. His writing exemplifies a synthesis of lived experience and aesthetic inquiry, characterized by linguistic simplicity coupled with emotional and philosophical depth.
Han’s poetry has been widely disseminated in both Chinese and international literary circles. His works have been translated into several languages, including Chinese, English, and Mongolian, and have appeared in prominent anthologies such as World Poetry Yearbook and Atunis Poetry Anthology, as well as in numerous Chinese and English literary journals. His works have been collected by globally renowned institutions, including the UNESCO Library, the Library of Congress (United States), and academic libraries in numerous countries.
He is the author of several poetry and prose collections, including Love’s Wound (Qing Shang), and has published extensively in the field of legal studies. Over the course of his career, Han Geyou has been the recipient of multiple literary honors, including the Wang Wei Poetry Gold Prize, the Cangyang Gyatso Cup, the Confucius Cup, and awards from the China Poetry Miles project.
Critics have recognized Han Geyou for his distinctive poetic style, which fuses clarity of language with emotional intensity and intellectual resonance. Chinese poet and literary critic Wang Fangwen has described his work as constituting “a new imagery in overseas Chinese-language poetics.” In recent years, Han Geyou’s poetry has focused extensively on the themes of homesickness, love, and diasporic identity, particularly as shaped by his experiences in North America. His lyrical expression of personal and collective memory, often imbued with a profound sense of longing and existential reflection,
还可以爱吗
文 / 韩舸友（寒山）
很想雪藏自己
在零下五十度的冰川底下
这样
冰不会颤，光不会扰
今生今世，命运也不会让我与你相遇
最美的遇见
就是一次前世的邂逅
即便没有归期
我依然期待
躲进柔情似水的梦幻里
一段文字
仿佛一粒粒石子
在心底掀起汹涌波涛
也恰似内心深处无奈的叹息
还可以爱吗
当眼前的世界开始模糊
岁月再一次进入寒冷的冬季
我能做什么
在荒野大声疾呼
还是躲入偏僻的角落逃避
假如可以恨
我一定不会原谅自己
一次次
让爱从指缝间溜走
一次次，让伤痕累累到难以痊愈
总在内心深处徘徊
在爱与恨间犹豫
总在幸福时刻祭奠往事
绝望时才想起珍惜
再一次叩开心扉吧
不管谁在窗外，谁在屋里
也不论期待什么
去往哪里
假如再次拥有
我想陪你一起走下去
直到天荒地老
岁月无期
让别人去追忆吧
去祭奠漫长岁月中最美的归期
2025.11.21.
Can I Still Love? / By Han Keyou (Hanshan)
I wish I could hide myself away,
buried beneath a glacier
at fifty degrees below—
then I would no longer tremble,
and in this lifetime,
I would never cross paths with you.
The most beautiful encounter
is a meeting from a former life.
Even without a promised return,
I still long
to rest within your gentle, flowing tenderness.
A fragment of writing
is like pebbles tossed
into the depths of my heart,
stirring up raging waves—
or like a helpless sigh
from the deepest place within.
Can I still love,
when the world before me grows blurred,
and the seasons once again
enter winter’s chill?
What can I do?
Cry out into the wilderness,
or hide in a remote corner
and flee?
If I could choose to hate,
I would never forgive myself—
for letting love slip
through my fingers, again and again;
for leaving wounds
that never fully heal.
Always wandering
in the depths of my heart,
hesitating
between love and hate;
always mourning the past
in moments of happiness,
and remembering to cherish
only when despair descends.
Once more I knock
upon the door of my heart—
no matter who stands outside,
who remains within,
or what is being mourned,
or where I wander.
If I could have it once again,
I would walk with love
to the ends of the earth,
through endless time.
Let others remember,
let them honor
the most beautiful return
in the long years past.
Nov. 21, 2025.
《美洲文化之声》简介：
《美洲文化之声》国际传媒网（Sound of USA）成立于2016年，是美国政府批准的综合网络平台，主要从事华语文学作品的交流推广。目前已与Google、百度、Youku、Youtube 等搜索引擎联网，凡在这里发表的作品均可同时在以上网站搜索阅读。
我们致力于弘扬中华传统文化，同时提倡文学创作的思想性和唯美主义风格，为世界各地的华语文学作品交流尽一份微博之力。同时，美洲文化之声俱乐部也正式成立，俱乐部团结了众多的海内外知名诗人、作家和评论家，正在形成华语世界高端文学沙龙。不分国籍和地区、不分流派，相互交流学习，共同为华语文学的发展效力。
传播中华优秀文化、倾听世界美好声音，是我们美好的追求和不可推卸的责任。
总顾问：森道.哈达（蒙古国）
顾问：李发模（中国）、祁人（中国）谭五昌（中国）、张素久（美国）、林德宪（美国）、萨仁图雅（中国）、周占林（中国）北塔（中国）、蓬丹（中国）
总编辑：韩舸友（美国）
副总编辑：冷观（美国）
副总编辑：jinwenhan（加拿大）
副总编辑：曹谁（中国）
Artificial Intelligence创作艺术总监：张琼（美国）
国际交流中心总监：芳闻（中国）
中国交流中心总监：夏花（中国）
编委：寒山（韩舸友/美国）、冷观（美国）、jinwenhan（加拿大）、张琼（美国）、芳闻（中国）、夏花（中国）、曹谁（中国）、范群（中国）、紫晨（美国）、柳芭（中国）
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